Oh, Mansi. YOU DIDN'T DO ANYTHING WRONG! Your parents had so many problems! They were trapped and opressed! There is NOTHING wrong with you! I KNOW how hard it is to let go of the past, and I haven't been able to do it totally. But, please look at it as it was your parents' problem! They were SO imperfect, that they're expectations of yo…
Oh, Mansi. YOU DIDN'T DO ANYTHING WRONG! Your parents had so many problems! They were trapped and opressed! There is NOTHING wrong with you! I KNOW how hard it is to let go of the past, and I haven't been able to do it totally. But, please look at it as it was your parents' problem! They were SO imperfect, that they're expectations of you, as well as their limited praise, reflected their LACK in parenting ability.
You are sweet, kind, generous, bright, compassionate, empathetic, authentic, and I just adore you! I'm SURE you are an EXCELLENT mother! I wish I could take away all doubts and insecurities from you in every way! Sure, you mess up. WE ALL DO. But, you'll NEVER be perfect, nobody will! Isn't THAT what your parents wanted?! For you to be PERFECT? Do you KNOW how senseless that is?!
Oh, Mansi. YOU DIDN'T DO ANYTHING WRONG! Your parents had so many problems! They were trapped and opressed! There is NOTHING wrong with you! I KNOW how hard it is to let go of the past, and I haven't been able to do it totally. But, please look at it as it was your parents' problem! They were SO imperfect, that they're expectations of you, as well as their limited praise, reflected their LACK in parenting ability.
You are sweet, kind, generous, bright, compassionate, empathetic, authentic, and I just adore you! I'm SURE you are an EXCELLENT mother! I wish I could take away all doubts and insecurities from you in every way! Sure, you mess up. WE ALL DO. But, you'll NEVER be perfect, nobody will! Isn't THAT what your parents wanted?! For you to be PERFECT? Do you KNOW how senseless that is?!